Why are, the vast - majority, of people, unwilling, and/ or, unable, to treat themselves, in the same, FAIR way, they try to treat others? While, it would, undoubtedly, assist, most of us, to take the time, and make a concerted effort, to give himself, a check - up, from the neck - up, few, ever. do! Only, when we take this objective, introspective, look, and consider ourselves, as we do others, is there, any possibility, of treating ourselves, right! After, over forty years, of conducting close to a thousand, self- help, and personal development/ growth, seminars/ programs, I strongly, believe, each of us, owe it, to ourself, to do so. With, that in mind, this article will attempt to, briefly, consider, examine, review, and discuss, using the mnemonic approach, what this means, and represents, and, why it matters.
1. Face facts; find; finest; fears; future; fruition: It's essential to, face the facts, instead of trying to lie/ mislead, oneself, if you are to become your true, best friend, and ally! Try to find, what's best for you, and your genuine, priorities, needs, goals, and perceptions! Address your fears, and concerns, proactively, and avoid any tendency towards, procrastination! Attempt to become the best, you can become, by accepting, only your finest efforts, while rejecting, good - enough! Evaluate options, and alternatives, with an open - mind, in terms of immediate needs, intermediate ones, and seeking the best course, for you, into the future! Once, you do this, persist, until you bring it, forward, to fruition!
2. Attitude; aptitude; attention; actions: Proceeding, with a positive, can - do, attitude (but, without, wearing, rose - colored, glasses), combined with, a relevant, well - developed, aptitude, and skill - set, assists you, to pay keen attention, to proceeding, with the finest,smartest, actions, etc!
3. Integrity; improve; introspection; ideas; ideals: Unless/ until, you proceed, with absolute integrity, especially, when there might be, some path, of lesser - resistance, available, will you improve, your feelings, about what is best, for you, personally! Give this, as much, review, and introspection, as you would, about the most urgent matters, and issues! If, your ideas, and personal ideals, align, you will optimize your chances, for inner happiness!
4. Realistic; relevant; responsive; responsible; reasons: A realistic, relevant, self - examination, is the most responsive, and responsible course, moving - forward, personally! Know your personal reasons, and, whether, they are, as important, to you, as you hope!
You'll never be, as happy, as you deserve, unless/ until, you are, consistently, FAIR, to you! How importance is your personal happiness, and self - satisfaction, and personal worth/ value, to you?
Richard has owned businesses, been a COO, CEO, Director of Development, consultant, professionally run events, consulted to thousands, and conducted personal development seminars, for 4 decades. Rich has written three books and thousands of articles. His company, PLAN2LEAD, LLC has an informative website http://plan2lead.net and Plan2lead can also be followed on Facebook http://facebook.com/Plan2lead
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